How can i meet other cute young gay boys? i live in a small town? im gay, i've just started coming out but i cant tell the world until the extended family find out...
and anyway i live in a small city where there are seriously no cute openly gay boys my age...so how can i meet all the closeted gays here? i can tell in the bigger cities who is and isnt gay (yep, use the gaydar) but when everyone's so homophobic here how am i meant to tell who is straight, who likes to joke around and who is just scared of what people will think of them?
i'm so alone where i live, i just want to find another cute boy who likes boys and be with each other....
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| I grew up in a small town too. In the bible belt as well. It's not easy. Watch for the guys that never have girls with them. They will still be hanging with the str8 boys, but they have needs just as you. Hang around and hang in. It'll happen, |
Blonde twink or gay emo? for cute young gay boys like me.? hey this is mostly for the cute young gay guys out there =)
if i was to change looks, which would you prefer:
- the cute gay emo (not too over the top, dyed black hair, tight black jeans and a hoodie w/scarf, maybe a lil eyeliner too)
OR
- the cute metro twink (blonde hair, kinda spikey, bright colours)
hope it makes sense to you xx
thanks babes. |
You could do both!
Have the left side of your body as the blonde chap you described and the other as the dark haired chap.
Still, this would cause havoc when choosing music, but i can't be expected to solve all your problems. |
Favourite pick up lines (young gay boys only plz)? ok, so all you cute gay teen boys like me out there..
what's your favourite pick up line to use on fellow bois?
i dont want any of them "did it hurt, when you fell from heaven" or "i'll have to call God and tell him i found the missing angel" stuff..
or the generalised "hey, i lost my number, can i borrow yours?" ones
example, my favourite is "hey, nice ***! what time does it open???"
so yeah specifically gay ones please babes xx
and no website links to lists or whatever, cant be bothered clicking them cos im a lazy *** =P
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"Oh my God, is it real" (while pointing at crotch)
tends to make them laugh especially if you have the "surprised" face on. I don't know but it works for me. |
Why most cute boys are gay? I'd seen a lot of cute boys in my classes, and I found out later on, that they all gay, or like older men. Once u cute and young, men found it attractive. Why is that? |
| I believe it's because gay men are more like girls and they care about their appearance. They fuss with their hair (all the ones I know, this does not apply to all gay men), and they have to decide what clothes to wear, like most girls. They take better care of themselves, whereas most straight men don't. If their hair gets a little unruley because it needs cut, then thats fine, they're not going to run to Great Clips. As long as the shirt looks clean, they will wear it, they don't care if it's an ugly color or it makes them look unflattering, clothes are clothes. |
Why is society against cute young boys dating older men? im 15 almost 16 i'm gay but now i've hit another road block, i find my self being attracted to men in the 30's and late 20's but this is not to say that i'm not attracted to people in my age group, it's that i just find older men MUCH MUCH more attractive and they already have money and stuff like that
so why some people are so against young people dating older men? its not like im suggesting them to date old men too , i dont really care but its annoying |
| I'm trying to see things from your point of view, but I can't seem to get my head that far up your azz |
Steamworks Chicago, are there many young cute fit boys 18-25 there & what's the routine for a first timer? I've never been to a gay club or gym. I am closeted bi and would like to try having sex with a cute fit boy. Are there many young thin toned 18-25 type guys at steamworks or is it mostly out of shape old guys?
Is steamworks fairly discrete and private, is the lighting dark, and can everyone see everyone else who is there? And for a first timer, how do you check in and what's the edict. How much does it cost? I'm young, cute and lean and want the same, any advice? |
| I found someone online who was normal to go with the first time. After that, you'll meet people. Good luck, have fun, and for all our sake, keep it wrapped. |
I have this "thing" for effeminate boys so is it cheating since they are mostly gay? My hubby is about to deploy and he's far away. I currently live with my mother in law though my parents are nearby and intimately involved in my life. I think they don't trust me because my mother and mother in law told me I couldn't wear shorts to school anymore ( I attend a local college and I'm majoring in Mathematics). My mom and mother in law help out with guy care and watch my daughter while I'm in school but insist that I be home by nightfall.
One time I met a boy when my hubby was away for his Basic and Infantry training (it lasted forever!! six months!!) and I met this cute gay boy in one of my classes. He and I became friends and study mates and soon we kissed and than other things happened. He was sooo cute and even though he is gay (note: I'm not trying to make a statement if gayness is inherited or learned but simply say that we did things together lol lol) and we wound up having sex (only a few times). I eventually admitted it to my hubby and begged his forgiveness and he forgave me. I told my hubby I only did it one time with this boy but actually did it three times. Oh when I say boy he's really an adult (young adult because the boy was 18 lol lol, I'm still 19 and will turn 20 next April 1st lol lol).
Anyway every time I see an effeminate boy I "fall in love". Most of them only want a man but what if I find another one like the one I cheated with. Oh he's still in my college and we say "hi" but he's in a relationship with a man so its cool plus he said he doesn't want to come between me and my husband.
I wish my husband was home because when he's around I NEVER even look at anyone else. When I cheated on my hubby I did it in a park nearby that had secluded pathways and one time in his car. I still had the rule about being home by dark than and was pregnant at the time so could not get pregnant plus the boy said he was clean because he said he only had sex with another boy in high school and had an examination after that.
Should I carry condoms in my purse or backpack "just in case" lol lol? |
| U desire physical affection like lots of us do. Sex can be comforting and soothing and your hub is out of reach for some time. Sometimes I feel I need a sexual workout when im alone and I crave for the feeling I get when a penis is in me! Does your hubby know how u feel. Would u say masturbation is cheating? No. It's nice to have sex for comfort if u r careful. It is only cheating if u r being horrible and untrustworthy. Yes I think it is wise to carry condoms just in case. |
Is it gay to think that boys are cute? im 14 and i think some younger boys at my school are cute i have accepted myself as bisexual and im not sure if it is or not |
| It depends. Maybe you just think boys are cute and you'd give on a peck then its not gay in my opinion (I'm gay.) but if you want to touch them I think maybe you have a little bit of gay in your orientation. |
I'm gay and how do I tell a younger boy that I love him...? Hello....I love you all!!!!! :)
I'm gay, cute and really really in love with this cute younger boy.
This young boy, let's just call him Andrew...and although he is only 14, he looks much older and is also MUCH stronger.
I, myself am 16 and I've just realized my inner desires concerning men, but I do prefer younger boys.
My question is, what do I do?? What if Andrew is not gay, or bi (I don't mind either)...and what should do I do??
I consider him like a little brother, but I guess my feelings are getting stronger and we are constantly wrestling/role playing all the time and I have this URGE to touch him 24/7.
Thank you all lovies. |
| If he's only 14, he's probably still figuring himself out in terms of sexuality, I wouldn't pressure him in any way if I were you, because you don't want to confuse him further, and you especially don't want to come across as a predator. I think unless you're 100% sure you can control these feelings, it might be better to distance yourself from him a little until he's older and more mature and can deal with the idea of a guy having a crush on him. Perhaps when he's closer to 16 or even older, you might be able to tell him about your feelings, but do keep in mind that when you're 18, he'll still be a minor, so do keep your wits about you. My advice would be to look for someone closer to your own age, because although it might not be your first preference, it is a lot safer, because 2-4 years is a long time to wait for Andrew to reach a point where he is more attainable, and charging in with him now is probably not such a good idea. |
Is it abnormal to be attracted to gay men? I have this attraction for young gay men who have that cute boy look. I have a boyfriend who is gay and we have oral sex a lot. I'm also married to a husband who is away in the Army but soon he will be coming home on Leave. I told my bf a week before my hubby returns I want to have a week of solid vaginal sex with him so that he can make me pregnant. Than my hubby will think he was the one lol lol. My bf is extremely smart (very high IQ) and is so totally and utterly cute that he would father a guy with superior mental and physical qualities. He is really gay and not hetereosexual because he has had men where he assumes the feminine role.
Lately, my brother has been distancing himself from his bf who is 18 but still in high school. I'd like to "please' him to because he is a cute boy also. My brother is dating a rich older man who is married but loves my gay brother. The man provides him with an allowance and buys him things. He has little time for his bf so I thought that maybe we could get better acquainted. Is it abnormal to have a husband, gay bf, and another gay boy on the side. I am very thin and feminine. |
It's perfectly normal. Most. if not all, girls get sexual urges and would feel just like u feel if their husband or bf was away.
I'd have both these boys and any others that were on offer! Masturbating yourself, whether u use your fingers or a dildo or something else to simulate the feel of a penis going in and out of your vagina or a vibrator to bring yourself off is fine but it's not a substitute for the sensation u get when f'ucking a real man. If they are clean, better still, as u can then do them bareback and enjoy them ejaculating inside u.
Hopefully with both your bf and the boy on-the-side being gay, they are less likely to become possessive and could be kept as fwb at least till hubby returns.
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