How to properly perform anal sex? I'm17 and i have been watching a lot of porn with anal sex in it and now i have a fetish for anal sex. So last week i asked my gf if i can perform anal sex on her and she said yes. So i was wondering is their a right way to do this or can i just shove it right in there. |
You need lots of lube for anal! Trust me! Lots!
To the point, that its dripping off your erect shaft!
then go in slowly, while she gets comfortable, b4 you know it, your balls deep in bum!
Tasty! |
How can i perform anal sex to my partner even if he doesnt like it? well i been asking my partner that i want to perform anal sex to him but he doesn't let me he said he doesn't like it. so is their anything i can do to convince him i've try alot of things but it doesn't work. please help me any ideas?? |
You shouldn't want to, your not supposed to be gay.
Your going to hell.
You should probably go talk to a pastor. |
How do you perform anal sex correctly? My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were fourteen. Now we're nineteen and we've decided to finally have sex. Unfortunately both of us suck in that area and have no idea what to do. We want to be careful and not hurt each other, so could someone (preferably a guy who's had anal sex with another guy) give me the rundown? |
| You put her in fours, lower her clothes, find the target and then ATTACK ! |
My boyfriend wants to perform anal sex.? So my boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. I am ready to take our sex life to the next level. He has always wanted to perform anal sex. I really want to be able to do this for him but I am also very nervous about doing it. I am not sure how to go about taking it or being prepared for it. Please help with any suggestions on how to do this for my boyfriend. |
As another person stated, lube is key! Use a water based formula when using condoms and plenty of it.
Relaxing is also important. Let go of any tension in your rump muscles. If you can't relax, you are not going to enjoy any type of anal play. It is best to wait until the next time if this is the case.
Warm up before anal intercourse. Fingers (washed of course) are perfect for this. Toys are even better. Small butt plugs are perfect for anal beginners. They go in, stay in and relax the anus. Use one during "regular" play time and it will feel divine in addition to getting you ready for back door fun.
Never ever transfer anything (penis, toy, finger) directly from your anus to your vagina. You will get an infection from the bacteria. Wash first! If the toy is not made from 100% silicone or glass, do not use for both anal and vaginal play - cleaned or not. Other materials cannot be completely sterilized!
Make sure that the toy you use has a flared base. This will keep the toy from traveling too far and getting lost. Yep, that's right. You will end up in the ER.
Have fun! If you find that you are not enjoying anal play, stop and try another time when you are ready.
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Is it safe to perform oral sex directly after anal sex has taken place? My boy friend and I recently began having anal sex, and we both really like it. I was wondering though if it's safe to give head after oral. He usually doesn't wear a condom. |
| lets put it this way your sucking your invisible poop off his dick which i hav no problem with but just think about it |
How do porn stars perform sex? Do they wear condoms or without condoms they take cocks in them. How do they perform anal sex so easily? Do they wear condoms while anal sex ? |
Ken...ALL of the above. You will find porn that is exclusively safe, meaning everyone wears condoms. And you will find porn where no one wears one.
As for the anal, once you get used to having a c ock in your butt, it becomes so much easier to have anal without clenching.
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Do a lot of guys feel frustrated if their girlfriend will perform oral sex and anal sex? but will refuse to do vaginal sex, in order to preserve their virginity? |
| No it's a good compromise. BJs are awesome just not the same as sex. So anal should make up for that nicely. |
My husband wants me to perform anal sex on him? I'm a bit disturb...should I be worried? My husband asked me a "what if" question. He said he had a fantasy about it and wanted to try. Does this absolutely mean he's bi-sexual or on the down low? |
The male g-spot is (unfortunately) locate next to the prostate. The best way to it is in the anus. Don't be worried. He just wants to experiemtn.
A man wanting to have something in their anus doesn't make them gay. If your husband wants anal, I suggest you try it out. It feels good for them, and feels good for you to do role play.
You may want to try a few different positions when you do it. Some maybe hard depending on how big and heavy he is (him being on top may be hard) but you should be able to have his legs apart and on his back so you can face him with little difficulty.
A good one that you might have to look for, or even "make" involve KY jelly and a pump.
New rubber dolls come with a adjustable penis attachment that "ejaculates." It can be mounted to the doll, but to other things as well. Some may need to be "rigged" up to to a strap on.
There is a pump attachment connected to a hose that pushes air into the "semen" pouch into the dildo. Squeeze the pump to make "the penis ejaculate in him." Usually the toy comes with a bottle of fake semen, but a little KY jelly in there and simulate the feel of the hot semen inside him. He will like you "ejaculating" in him.
You might want to weigh it if he wants you to to wear mens clothing as you do it. It you have to buy mens clothing, be worried. If he asks you to wear his pants (with the fly open) as you give it to him, he just wants to role reverse, and that is ok. you may liek it a bit yourself. |
How do I encourage my girlfriend to have anal sex with me? I've been with this girl for a couple of months now and want to perform anal sex on her. What do you think is the best way to get her to try? SHould I talk about it first or "accidentally" stick it in? |
| I've heard men who always desire to have anal sex, often times have deep seeded homosexual feelings they are suppressing. |